Oh Thank Heaven …

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When I was about five I was allowed to walk with my friend, the same age, to the 7-Eleven that was practically across the street from our apartments.  We usually got a quarter each to go on Saturdays and they used to have prizes hidden under the bottom of the cup.  The world-wide chain store actually began in Dallas in 1927.  I had no idea they started as an ice house and that their first name had been “Tote’m” because customers would “tote” away their purchases.  Apparently many stores even had genuine Alaskan totem poles in front.  I always knew they got their name from their operating hours which were seven days a week, but that was not until 1946.  Ironically in 1963 they began staying open around the clock.  My beloved childhood cherry Slurpee was originally called an “Icee” when it was introduced in 1965.  Today marks the official birthday of 7-Eleven, the world’s largest convenience store chain.  Each year, on 7/11 from 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. you can walk into your local store and score a free Slurpee to commemorate it.  I remember this was the first sugary drink I ever let my daughter have.  Today we both chose a mixture of “birthday cake” and cherry to try and beat the Texas heat.  I’m glad one thing from my childhood hasn’t changed.  American singer Indina Menzel (ironically of “Frozen” fame) said:

“You get to relive your childhood when you have a baby and you see these toys and these books you read when you were little – the innocence that you are able to maintain because you have to find that again in order to connect with your child keeps you in a special state of mind.”

As my little one and I felt the hot air rising off the pavement I was so glad I got to share this with her.  We sat together in agreeable silence punctuated only by the occasional sounds of slurps.  Dirty bare feet and sweaty red faces are still a part of mid-summer in Dallas.  “Oh thank heaven” for 7-Eleven making more happy childhood memories … with cherry flavor on the top.

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Red Chilies, Red Mountains, And Red Earth

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When I think of Santa Fe, one thing which comes to mind is hanging chili peppers.  They’re iconic.  The Hatch chili is an integral staple of New Mexican cuisine.  In fact, the official New Mexico vegetable is the chili pepper.  The official state question is, “Red or green?”; I happen to prefer “Christmas” since I can never decide and that way I get both.  People seem to have a varying sense of which is hotter.  Personally I find them both mild, but then I like things really hot and spicy.  They are not only grown in Hatch, New Mexico but all along the Rio Grande — from the Taos Pueblo in the north to the Isleta Pueblo in the south.  On one trip with my mother after Daddy had passed an Indian man selling chilis introduced me to “chasing” pistachios with fresh ground chili pepper by scooping some up in part of the shell.  I was hooked!  Another thing I wish I could have shared with Daddy was Chimayo.  Specifically the Sanctuario De Chimayo.  About 30 minutes north of Santa Fe, the historical community is known as the “Lourdes of North America” and is one of the most sacred pilgrimages on the continent.  People journey from all over the world for the holy soil which has been reported to work miracles on all sorts of ailments minor and major.  It is built on what legend has said is a sacred Native American site.  Many come praying for a miracle.  I will never forget seeing a Navajo man in a wheelchair with one blue leg (presumably about to be lost from diabetes) praying there.  I remember feeling so humbled and turning my selfish prayers instead to him.  There is also a great restaurant there called Rancho de Chimayo.  It is magical to dine out on their sprawling, terraced patio under the stars.  Nestled in the magestic Sangre de Cristo mountains in piñon covered hills, there is simply no place quite like it.  There used to be a huge, fat cat there that roamed the terrace searching out food but s/he was so picky s/he eschewed anything but sopapillas with fresh honey.  The English writer W. L. George once said:

“Cats know how to obtain food without labor, shelter without confinement, and love without penalties.”

It seemed to me that’s what this clever kitty had mastered  … and in the purrfect place.

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Changing Seasons

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Feeling the seasons change was different.  Perhaps it would not have held the twinge of sadness without my father.  But I discovered new things like the Santa Fe flea market and a haunt where the locals went.  “Tecolote” (owl) was this great place where blue corn posole met old fashioned white biscuits and gravy.  It PAINS me to say it is no longer open, as I absolutely adored their breakfast!  The whole place was filled with 1970’s era owls  — from macramé planters to ceramics.  Since I collect wolves I could appreciate all the varying types of tecolotes which must have taken years to collect.  It was not just colorful and fun; their food was old-school fantastic.  My husband says the “flea market” used to be great: a somewhat gritty, true, authentic flea market.  Over the years he says it became very sanitized and more like an outdoor outlet from some of the major shops in town.  But it was still fun to peruse and it had a great view of the opera house when it was still open air.  American fashion designer Anna Sui said this:

“I love going to flea markets especially when I am traveling, because I love seeing the stuff of other cultures, handicrafts and things with historical content.”

Santa Fe offers the perfect mix of cultures, handicrafts, and history; a one of a kind city in the United States; truly the “City Different.”

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Santa Fe

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I had been to Santa Fe, New Mexico two glorious times while my father was still living.  Daddy would always sit on the park bench while Mama and I went around the plaza and shopped.  Everyone assumed he was local and the Indian community there was always eager to visit with him.  He looked so handsome in his Indian bolo ties and they truly were the best trips we ever got to take as a family.  So I was well acquainted with Santa Fe when we went to see Burk’s mother and stepfather, who live there.  My family had only gone in August and this was in October.  It started cold and gloomy but it was nice to still enjoy a piñon fire in the rain.  Then the sun broke through and I snapped this picture.  The foliage looked different in the first blush of autumn than it did in summer’s last rays.  There was a hollowness being there without my parents but I thought about the cycles of time and tried to enjoy this new one.  I do not want to gloss over some of Santa Fe’s greatest treasures, as I realize many who are reading this live abroad and have not been.  First, it is a true walking town, centered around a plaza built by the Spanish in 1610, making it the oldest state capital city in the United States.  Note I did not say the city of Holy Faith was “founded” then; as native inhabitants had already dwelt there for centuries.  French Roman Catholic Archbishop Jean-Baptiste Lamy built the St. Francis Cathedral dedicated to the city’s patron saint, St. Francis of Assisi.  It resides prominently just off the square and is the mother church of the archdiocese of Santa Fe.  My favorite church is San Miguel, just a few minutes’ walk from the plaza.  It has the honor of being the oldest U.S. church in continual use — since 1610.  It’s thick adobe walls and bell tower beckon one to come in and pray.  Another church integral to Santa Fe history is the Loretto Chapel built in 1878.  It stands at the end of the Santa Fe Trail just outside the plaza.  Fashioned after my beloved Sainte Chapelle in Paris — my favorite chapel in the world, it is due to its exquisite stained glass.  The ornate stained glass for the Loretto Chapel made the journey from Paris to New Orleans via ship and then by paddle boat to Saint Louis.  It was then taken by covered wagon over the old Santa Fe Trail to the Chapel:  quite a feat in 1610.  It also contains a Miraculous Staircase which I shall write about at some point.  Scottish travel writer Robert Lewis Stevenson once said:

“I never weary of great churches.  It is my favorite kind of mountain scenery.  Mankind was never so happily inspired as when it made a cathedral.”

Having been to Santa Fe quite a few times, this is simply a brief introductory of one of my favorite cities:  the City Different, with mountains and churches; Indians and pueblos; red chilis and blue corn, and a wealth of history and art.

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Roots

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I got to thinking about roots on this Athens trip … both familial and arborilogical.  They were all around us:  in street names and lake bottoms; in “I knew your Grandmother” and in the damp earth of twisting vines along creek beds.  Not everyone is fortunate enough to know their genealogical roots.  And I have come to realize even if they do it may not mean much, as some families are not close.  I have thought a lot over the years about nature versus nurture.  I believe they both have merit and frankly I’m not sure which has more sway in the end.  This next day my husband gave me a tour of the Texas Freshwater Fisheries Center.  Honestly, I thought it was going to be a bunch of men in overalls trying to extract poor fish from a barrel.  To my somewhat chagrined surprise and utter delight, it was also a place of learning promoting the wise use and conservation of Texas’ natural resources.  They had a wetlands trail emphasizing the ecology and interrelationships among aquatic habitats.  It was fascinating.  I never knew the importance of brackish water before this exhibit, with 300,000 gallons of aquaria and other exhibits allowing for the study of native Texas fish in their natural environment.  Here we were in this small town and a jewel was discovered.  They had HUGE catfish practically the size of our wolf cubs and the knowledge junkies in us thought it more of a living/working museum.  So back to nature versus nurture.  American writer Sam Kean said:

“The more that I looked at DNA, the more I realized it was nature and nurture.  It’s how genes and your environment work together to produce the person you are.”

I have always thought my husband was the overlooked gem, much like this center we had just toured.  I am glad to be the one that gets to nurture his nature; just as he nurtures mine.  It’s all in our roots.

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Athens

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My husband has family history in Athens.  He is not Greek; rather Texan.  His paternal side has a place in East Texas and we went for a short visit.  A couple of hours later outside of town majestic looking trees lined both sides of the road and escorted us on our drive.  We came to a place where my husband stopped to call the caretaker to please open the gate.  As we entered our tires ground a gritty hush along the dirt road and I tried to absorb the peacefulness of it all.  There was a sort of slowing I savored as he showed me around.  I liked the older wooden deck where water peaked out from between tall, spindly trees.  Pictured here is the lake just before sunset.  Then nature’s shroud of darkness surrounded us and we looked up to marvel in wonder at the brightness of the stars.  It was autumn and the crisp scent of pines was gentle in the chilly night air.  As I gazed out I realized how blessed we were to have access to such quiet beauty.  I almost did not want to go inside because I could not seem to drink in enough of the stillness that settled like a mantle over the woods.

“But especially he loved to run in the dim twilight of the summer midnights, listening to the subdued and sleepy murmurs of the forest, reading signs and sounds as a man may read a book, and seeking for the mysterious something that called—called, waking or sleeping, at all times, for him to come.” ~ Jack London, The Call of the Wild

The call of the wild has always beckoned me.  I believe true fortune rests on those lucky enough to “own” a piece of it:  wealth not in a huge house or haute couture; rather in the unfettered delight of the company of trees with all of their companions.  Money and travel are certainly blessings, but knowing the value of and preserving creation’s God-given glory in my opinion is priceless.

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Sheer Magnetism

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When we first bought our house we had to buy a washing machine, dryer, and refrigerator since the previous owners took theirs with them.  The microwave, stove and dishwasher were all the same brand so that is what we chose to stick with.  I am discovering things just don’t last like they did when I was kid.  We had ONE vacuum and ONE refrigerator essentially my entire childhood.  Now, as machinery and technology are becoming more sophisticated, I suppose there is more to break down.  We were fixing our fridge to the point of it no longer being cost effective and I was fortunate enough to wander into a showroom where they were having an obscene (and legit) appliance sale.  I took measurements, researched and finally allowed myself to admit I just loved the dark blue lights, the extra inside space, and the little ice cubes it made so perfectly.  As a kid my job was having to pour the ice in the tray.  For some inexplicable reason I DETESTED doing it and now I have an affinity for small ice as a consequence.  I expected my husband to be thrilled.  What I had not anticipated was the look of stunned disbelief my little one had as she threw open the French doors and simply stared up transfixed, mesmerized by all the LED lights illuminating our new refrigerator like something out of Las Vegas.  “Mama, it’s like we have TWO refrigerators!” she said as she kept her huge eyes trained unwavering inside the doors.  In the bottom freezer part I gave her the top drawer for all her gluten free food, I took the middle drawer and gave Daddy the big, deep drawer at the bottom.  I found myself showing off its features like it was the “The Price Is Right”, accompanied by echoing “ooohs” from my little family.  “And look!  There’s a spare ice tray!” I found myself exclaiming.  That will come in handy for our next party, which reminded me of some party we held at our house once and, as parties often seem to do, a lot of people were congregated in the kitchen.  More aptly, they were congregated around the man tending bar in the kitchen.  A woman we knew brought a guest and her boyfriend proceeded to crack on our fridge, carrying on about how tacky the magnets were.  He was a guest in our home, freely availing himself of our alcohol and heavy hors d’oeuvres, and insulting the hostess.  The ironic thing is, I grew up with Mama having magnets on her fridge and I promised myself when I moved out I was going to have a clean refrigerator devoid of any kitsch.  And then when I got my first apartment Mama got me one little magnet with baby wolves as a housewarming present.  I had my first wolf hybrid cub and it was one of the sweetest gifts she had ever given me.  From then on I was attached.  Those magnets tell the story of my life:  with past pets, a childhood picture, my folks kissing on a train, and a token of all of our travels since we have gotten married.  When I first got our new fridge it was so sleek and shiny.  I found myself polishing it every two seconds because of the blasted fingerprints.  Then I discovered it had to have its own cloth.  I felt like I had just purchased a new pair of designer sunglasses only it required a lot more work.  And then I realized I did not want to be a slave to an appliance; I wanted it to bring me pleasure.  So my little one and my husband helped me put our familiar magnets up much like decorating a Christmas tree.  American television producer Charlie Ebersol said this:  “As long as you’re centering back to home base, and that’s the strongest magnet in your life, that everything else is okay.”  Jesus Christ, my family, and my home are my magnet; I will not worry what others may think and I know that everything else will be OK.

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(Sea) Stars and Stripes

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This year I wanted to dress my little one patriotically as I always do for the 4th of July.  When I came across this outfit I thought it was the most clever thing I had ever seen.  Her little blue top had white sea stars and her red shorts had horizontal stripes.  I thought it was a perfect and fitting take on the “stars and stripes” for my little star of the sea; the meaning of her name in Latin.  It was a happy family time.  And she certainly has it different than when I was a kid.  There was music, face painting, a buffet, snow cones, bounce houses and glow sticks for when the sun set before the private fireworks began on the lawn.  I think my husband used to take the festivities for granted, having grown up with them all his life.  I am so thankful my little one has the privilege but I do NOT want her having the false sense of entitlement that too often accompanies such luxuries.  It’s a bit like living in America in general I think.  One simply EXPECTS clean, running water and electricity.  Now Americans seem to expect a TV in every room and food available wherever they may be — whether it’s a grocery store or a hardware store.  I do not want want to become complacent about any of it:  having a car, readily available medical treatment or AIR CONDITIONING!  Anyone able to read this is blessed simply by having access to a computer.  America may not be perfect but I still believe she affords all a chance at life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  As the song “America the Beautiful” says:

“O beautiful for spacious skies,
For amber waves of grain,
For purple mountain majesties
Above the fruited plain!
America! America! God shed His grace on thee,
And crown thy good with brotherhood
From sea to shining sea!

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Tempus Fugit

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Time flies.  I find it especially true as I get older.  I remember when summers lasted an eternity and school went on forever.  Now I look at the calendar three months out, blink, and it has come and gone.  Nothing brings that point home more than seeing pictures of my little one.  She went from being a much prayed-for dream, to something I could feel but not really see, to this huge-eyed angel with strawberry blonde peach fuzz, to my little girl with a mop full of curls.  And it all happened before I knew it.  As fleeting as the beating of a butterfly’s wings, she has said her first words, taken her first steps, laughed, prayed, written her name, and played.  American cartoonist Bil Keane is credited with the saying:

“Yesterday’s the past, tomorrow’s the future, but today is a gift.  That’s why it’s called the present.”

And so I shall close my computer for today and spend the precious gift of time I have been given with my sweet family.  I hope you enjoy the present you have been given as well.

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Lalaloopsy Lollapalooza

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I have probably previously confessed I have never been a doll person.  Frankly I find them creepy, like clowns.  I always loved plush animals as a kid and eschewed any baby Mama ever bought me.  But when I saw this soft, floppy doll I knew I wanted my Baby Doll to have her.  Legend has it she came to life when her very last stitch was sewn from a princess’ dress and, of course, she is my little one’s favorite beloved pink.  She didn’t take to the doll right at first so I figured she just didn’t like her.  I could not very well fault her when I never cared for dolls myself.  And then one day I noticed Jewel Sparkles had been retrieved from a pink basket in the corner where she resided, having been forgotten and not played with.  She reminded me of the sweet little doll in the Island of Misfit Toys from the old “Santa Claus is Coming to Town” claymation.  The next thing I know Jewel began accompanying us everywhere:  from restaurants, to the grocery store, to church.  She has been hugged, whispered to, invited to tea, and loved just as I’d hoped she would be.  I snapped this picture of Jewel at the country club; my little one didn’t want her getting hurt in the bounce house.  The British idealist philosopher F. H. Bradley once wrote:

“We say that a girl with her doll anticipates the mother.  It is more true, perhaps, that most mothers are still but children with playthings.”

I may have never loved pretend dolls in the past but I sure do love the real life Baby Doll I am blessed with now.  She has huge brown eyes fringed with thick, black lashes, a head full of reddish ringlets, the fullest lips, a pert nose, and the softest skin.  Best of all, I can hug her, whisper to her, have tea with her, and love her just as I’d always hoped.

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